6 Great Tips to Recognize your Beshert
Beshert is a Jewish term for a soul mate. This word means destiny or the predestine partner. Some of the priests teach that according to Talmud, 40 days before the male child will be born, God is going to announce whose daughter he is going to marry in the future. According to Kabbalah, God has already divided the soul in half, one male and one female. Whenever they finally meet in the holy matrimony, it is told that their bond returns.
There are some people said that you can go to Jerusalem at the Wailing Wall to pray there for 40 days so you will be able to attract your destiny, or your soul mate. There are even some articles that say they did this and they got married. There are also some websites offer service to send someone to Wailing Wall who can pray for you for 40 days, although, you need to pay for a fee.
However, do people really believe in soul mates during these days? Based on the poll by the Spark Networks, Inc, there are 46% of the singles who believe that there is a one right person that waits somewhere from around the world for them, 34 % of them disagreed whereas the other 20% are undecided.
On the other hand, if you really believe in Beshert, how will you be able to recognize yours?
Here are the seven usual things that people say whenever you have already found your Beshert:
Time stands still
It says here that whenever you see each other, time does not seem to stop. You never realize how time flies so fast whenever you are with your soul mate.
You get the feeling like you already knew each other before
Even if you just met each other for the first time, it feels like you are already very comfortable with each other.
There are a lot of common things between you two
Well, yes, in order for you to be compatible with each other, you need to have several common things that you need to find between you two so you will be able to understand one another and not argue on random stuff.
Similar values
It might be because you came from the same country from the same culture so this one could really lead you to finding your Beshert or your soul mate.
Deep mutual acceptance
This is the same with the commonalities that you have in between you two, in order for you to avoid arguing with each other oftentimes, you need to have a deep mutual acceptance. You need to understand one another so you can have a good time together as a couple or for you to enjoy each other’s company.
Have an ability in helping each other grow
This one talks about not only about your own happiness. It is like being happy whatever it is that makes your partner happy as well. This only comes when you truly are mature enough and you think about your partner’s happiness first before you think of yours.
At the end of the day, finding your Beshert might feel joyous and amazing at the same time. However, long term relationships and marriage still need a hard work and a constant dose in the real world.
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